Trust and Fellowship

Out of all things, two values stand out when you  want       _.._
people to care for you, Trust and Fellowship, Its  not    .' .-'`
that hard, but a question lingers, what would it  take   /  /
for you to get a  high  sense  of   these   values  in   |  |
someone's life? and is there a fine line between Trust   \  '.___.;
and Fellowship?                                           '._  _.'

Things like this are way too philosophical, of course the  
answer is love and time, things develop, thus we can't even be
so sure if they'll get along forever, if we had the ability to
see the future, sure, we'll know if things will work out, or not.

But what if it gets to the point that someone placed a high sense
of value on to you after all what you did to  be  with  them, but 
behind their back, you're using that value to hurt everyone else?
it'll be unfair of course, you  did  everything to get that  said 
"high value" from them, only for chaos.

Will that said value be legitimate? or did you cheat your  way in
to their heart? and in the end of the day,  they'll  never   know 
why people hate you so much, that person will keep   saying  that
you're the best, most wonderful person  to  be  with,  yet  their
words are just describing make believe.

Sometimes, you think that the closest  person  you've  been  with
is the most innocent, and if we were to define innocent, it would
mean that they haven't done anything  wrong towards someone, they
didnt do them dirty in summary.

                     Yet they never were.

Its scary to think that there are  people  like  that,  sometimes 
they haven't done much, but they  think  that  they  have all the 
answers to every question  you  have, that  excuse  itself  makes  
you  stay with them longer than you should be, you  slowly engulp
the lie they have been telling you, and in the  end,  in a  place
where everyone had seen things, you're the  only  blind one , and
'til now, you're still spouting deceit.

But people aren't  dumb, they'll  start  questioning  you, right? 
sometimes thats not the case, and if  you'd go to so much lengths
just to be with them, get that deserved  value  and hurt everyone
else using  it,  then  what's the  point of  the  two values that 
are the pillars of a good friendship?

Atleast in the end, you'll stop believing in the lie, and  you'll 
end  up  apologizing  and  thanking   the   people  who  did  the  
deed  on trying to warn you.

We can't stop these kind of people, we're bound to encounter that
friend who forces you to decide on  something  that  will  change 
your life, it'll be damaging to you and your dignity.

Seeing what i just said, if someone were to  do  that,  then  its 
wrong that wont get you anywhere in life  in  fact,  you'll  just  
continue creating discord between two parties, I get  the concept
of tea and drama but things like will always go way too far.

Now  based  on  what  i've  reflected, I  think i   can  see  the
fine line between Trust and Fellowship.