Tue, January 13, 2004 9:27 pm

don't go too fast

if you're in a longdistance relp, then sometimes it's better to have some 
groundrules so no one gets jealous or hurt

work out the groundrules, it might take some spice out of things but 
losing a little spice might be compensated by having comfort/certainty and 
where they were heading

if you don't do that, then the other thing to do with a longdistance relp 
is to do what you say... if not know if you're seeing, then don't say.