shrink ------ I guess I'm back to seeing my shrink... things got worse I need help. I've been coming to work 1.5 hours early this past 2 weeks. I've been so busy at work and it's getting out of hand. I still remain calm though... that's because I don't let work affect me anymore. I have this defence mechanism that I use when people at work start abusing me. I'm a wolf in sheep clothing as they say. Watch out. ... I sometimes just want to stop working and do nothing. I can't handle selfish/arrogant/insensitive people around me sometimes. I need to shut them out. My boss told me to learn to work with people like these. I wanted to tell my boss NO WAY so bad and that I would rather quit but I had to control myself. I have this new rule now where before I do something terrible I sleep on it overnight. Most of the time I am calmer and 'nicer' the next day. Why would you subject people you work with with your own bitterness that you get out of your own personal life??? I don't understand this. I don't do this. I have always learned to sepparate work and personal life. I never bring personal problems to work nor inflict my own sufferings to people at work. It's just not fair. I'm so tired of everyone in this world. The only living thing that I seem to get along with perfectly, 100%, without flaw, is my cat. That's why I love animals. They don't say much. ... so I gave in to my parents' wishes. Now I must suffer.