<<You're Italian, just find another one.>> I don't really know how to say this, but maybe I'm not Italian after all. What's the kind of person I want to become? I'm not certain, but trying other behaviours to at least know what I'm not going to be should be constructive. At least then I'll be, if not a better person, capable of making an informed decision. Oh, by the way, just ignore the dot there.