LOL Chris - well, that's the danger of virtual-everything. You
   get instant gratification, or you get clearly laid out puzzles
   written by programmers that have a logical way of doing things.
   You're living inside of someone else's head. But when you engage
   in Real Reality, kyou have to live inside of your OWN head, not
   the one provided by the programmer, the TV exec, the movie
   producer, etc. Of course, I do it too. I love online socializing
   because real life socializing is a pain in the butt. "