Great thoughts. Had a good raver friend in the mid 90's and
   while Exstacy got him started, once he dropped the drugs, he
   continued with the PLUR concept and is happily married leading a
   happy life. We're not in contact but once a year - but he
   embraced it totally and I always had the highest respect for him
   in the way he treated everybody with respect, kindness - and he
   didn't have in/out circles - everybody was his friend in his
   mind. Man, now I have to see if he's on facebook. "