^If you are unhappy, you have only yourself to blame. Other
   people or things can give you an outside FOCUS for your
   unhappiness, but they are not the CAUSE. It is your own desire
   for things to be "just so" not matching up to your Reality that
   causes your unhappiness. I expect at least 200 FB friends to
   violently disagree with me, but I may get 2 or 3 to nod "yes!".
   :-)^