and an fyi from my perspective; You can ALWAYS have a full-fledged discussion on my wall. Discussion is always appropriate and when you're "in the zone" of a conversation, new ideas spring forth that might not spring forth if the conversation is halted and returned to later on. Sometimes you can't repeat the initial conditions that started the conversation in the first place. So, for me, don't worry about rudeness. To me, it's a honor to be graced by intelligence on my wall or anywhere that I'm around smile emoticon