My personal beliefs on the matter is that we are in, part of and
   of the singularity. The reason why we can't find it is because
   we're participants, in, on, of, etc. The sense of 'separateness'
   or a perfect world of ideals, I believe is a biological flaw
   based upon a lag effect. a kind of hysteresis. Or perhaps based
   upon our mental systems working well with imaginary 1D lines and
   creating machines within the brain [utilizing that part of our
   visual system that seems to outline objects with sharpness],
   repurposed to perfect lines, perfect ideals, etc.