Buzz The Door As a tow truck driver on a call you're always in a rush. The loss of even one second is frustrating as someone might be in distress of where it was your job to assist. That's why when I couldn't find the address and went into the office of the retirement center, where the address I was responding to was supposed to be, I found an additional delay The retirement home was on several acres, the largest and best known in the area. I pulled open the glass door and walked up to the clerks glass enclosed cage and asked if this was the address and if there was if anyone had called for a lockout. I assumed the individual might be waiting in the lobby. The clerk held her response for just an instant and then said "no." I proceeded to go back out the door but it was locked. Looking for a latch there was none. I looked up at the clerk who blatently ignored me and then stared with a certain arrogance. Her goal was to get me to beg to get out. Glancing up and realizing she saw me I tried the door again. No go. "Can you open the door," I said with my hand ready, to the clerk through glass while all the while imagining or wondering if I could break the door down. No acknowledgment. The clerk ignored me as she looked at some papers, above and out of my view on her desk. "I need to get out. Can you open the door?" She stared for a minute full well knowing I would know she heard me then looked away again in full fledged ignore mode. I marched back over to the glass window and demanded she open the door. "Do I have to file paperwork with management to get out of here?" I said, finally evoking a response. I heard the door buzz. The buzzing stopped just as I grabbed the handle. I looked over with obvious rage and she buzzed it again and I got out. I should have taken a complaint to management right then and there, but I had a call to make. I was enraged and that was probably what the clerk wanted. What a perverted little game, to make people beg, in her presence, to just get out of a glass cage with what looked like bullet proof glass. This was far too much power for a disgruntled clerk. This style of interaction with the public is not uncommon. How many facilities are set up with lockout doors with no way to get out. It's a low priority item with management, and a necessity in their job of dealing with members of the deranged public, but here was a retirement home, where relatives and friends would visit their aging relatives. I'm sure the answer is that they don't want any of their 'patients' with dementia wandering out into the streets, but the institutionalized packing of our elderly is abused for profit and petty vindictiveness of a frustrated employee, not to mention reflective of a management that's probably much the same. There's no changing the system. The clerk would not have treated a doctor the same way. The door would be ready and buzzing the minute his hand touched the handle. 'Johnny on the spot' ready to be a good employee, yet she was able to take out her frustration on a disheveled tow truck driver. That may be the error of institutions, in that responsibility is turned over to working people who some how are obsessed with their temporary power. This institutional management style only gives in to the decay of values, heritage and social fabric that ultimately are destroying our society. Imagine a family, kids in tow, going to visit grandma at the retirement home, only to see video cameras and locked doors, not the home with garden and candy they used to remember. This is how society treats it's participants, with institutionalized power and sterility. kbushnel.sdf-us.org/contact.html