I had been looking forward to having been born in the summer for the first time in my life, but as I wake up, it's pouring down. So I don't. It's not like I can think of anything I'd like to do, anyway. I got a little cleaning and organizing done last night, which is a much better present than going through any kind of celebratory motions. I have come to appreciate being in control of one's own happiness, but this I think is one day when it should be someone else's job. I'm old enough to know for certain that just passing of time isn't enough to cure what is childish in me. I dawdle at home until the rain lets up, thinking of my grandmother singing to me over the phone: a moment of silence on the line, and then her familiar song. If I'm already down, there's no harm in trying to recreate her graceful voice in my mind as I follow the melody. In the course of the day, it grows vivid enough I can be grateful for not forgetting yet. Or, flowers from Atlas, almost equally unlikely but this one I do manage to convince myself of for a second. (Because these are the kind of wonders that happen in my life whenever it's not going to hell in a handbasket. Because I dreamt about it once, and after our strange near miss in June, I may or may not have been telling myself now every other dream I've ever had of him will eventually happen. It's a pity I never did finish writing about either of these, but 'you' are just me anyway, so let this be your reminder.) The noise in the hallway of course turns out to be just neighbors. The gamble paid off, though, and it's not actively pouring down anymore as I walk to the library, even if the weather is still disgusting. Grant application took another several steps forwards, and whether it's what I'd genuinely wish to be doing, the false conviction is one antidote for this funk. The quiet company of people is the next best thing.