Watching the Joker tonight. He sings on the phone an English version of a French song... Je te donnerai des perles de pluie d'un pays ou il ne pleut pas Ne me quitte pas Ne me quitte pas Ne me quitte pas I will do the impossible for you Don't leave me... A song that I've cried to a few years ago when my wife wanted to leave me yet again. I knew it wasn't good for me But I preferred to stay in a painful situation than to break it apart Yeah it's not my first rodeo My wife wanted to leave me many times while together Each time I said: I'll try harder Each time I took it upon me, it was my failure I've failed for 15 years You would think after so long you'd end up succeeding but no, we separated anyway The problem with failing so many times is that everything becomes about her. The foundation of my life was to make her happy everything surrounding my action, my thoughts, had all the same goal making her happy Now, why am I continuing. There is no more goal, no more destination. I don't really care about any other goals really. I don't want her but I miss my purpose I'd rather have her and a purpose than being free and alone I don't know how long this sensation will follow me.. Before meeting Melina I was at the end of my exploration of desires. I had my fun, my parties, my orgies, my sex life. I was content with it, and I was ready to dedicate my life to higher purpose. I told God, if she wanted me to have a family, she should put someone in my life that is very low drama. And She did. Now, I'm on the other side of that relation... I am back to this void. Why would I be good at music, at art, at writing, if I am alone. No one to read me, to hear me, to see my progress. No one to impress, to charm, to love... I was doing it all for her, for us... Now what? I still reach for her validation. She mockingly give it, I make sure it sounds like a joke. As if I needed that anymore... I catch myself so many times doing sometime hoping she'll like it and then realizing she'll never hear that piece I played She'll never read these word... She'll never care anymore Why play the piano in an empty house where no one will hear my love It's been over a month now. It seems like it will go forever, and I'm still holding on to what it was. Not that I want her back in my life. I know really well that this was unhealthy and I would have died of that relationship. I just don't know. I just can't picture what's after the event horizon. I've always had difficulty picturing myself in the future. When I travel, I'm always amazed when I reach a destination. Wow, I'm still me, but in a new place. It feel surreal. Thinking that one day I'll have a new car it's a weird feeling. I don't feel attached to what I have and where I am at, but the future always seems difficult to imagine. Really? One day I might be in a relationship with someone else? I really don't see it. I really have no idea where I am going and for what reason I don't care to be rich, I don't want to be famous I don't really need anything. I'm happy to provide for my daughter. To stay alive long enough to see her grow up. That might be enough for now, at least