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What is the most important thing you know or have learnt?
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|u/bbygirllina - 3 hours
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|Managed to learn how to think. How to leave my phone, turn all noise
|down, sit by myself and think without any disturbances.
|u/sleepingbeast87 - 3 hours
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|Please tell me how. I think, but sometimes I wander from cloud to
|cloud, from island to island, and then just float away.
|u/GeneralBass6491 - 2 hours
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|Your job doesn’t care about you
|u/No_Quote7705 - 3 hours
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|I've learned that kindness costs nothing but means everything. Whether
|it's to a stranger, friend or even yourself, choosing compassion can
|genuinely change the course of someone's day - or even their life.
|u/xLushLover - 2 hours
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|It costs nothing, but the impact it can have on others and on
|yourself is immeasurable. It’s one of those things that always makes
|the world a bit brighter.
|u/MoneyTruth9364 - 3 hours
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|Importance of gratitude in a relationship.
|u/ElleDrewz - 3 hours
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|people will treat you how you allow them to , so set boundaries
|u/Apprehensive-Bite585 - 3 hours
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|1. sleep just a little bit more than you think you need to 2. everyone
|you meet knows something you do not 3. if you do have to buy it, buy
|the best quality you can possibly afford 4. take care of your feet and
|teeth and spine 5. clean as you go 6. wait a minute, reconsider, think
|it through
|u/starrytrina - 3 hours
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|Love yourself.
|u/AliiceFox - 3 hours
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|You learn more from failing then succeeding
|u/Jenessis - 3 hours
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|Even if we live to a 100 years old our time here is just the blink of a
|god. Enjoy it.
|u/Gorgeous12Muse - 3 hours
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|Never let someone else define your worth. Took me until my late 30s to
|figure that out, but it completely changed how I approach life and
|relationships. Wish I'd known this back in high school when I was
|desperately trying to fit in.
|u/Sigbac - 3 hours
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|Time is so precious. It's absolutely the most valuable thing I have.
|Time should be on your side for your projects
|u/Charming_Mountain437 - 3 hours
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|You cannot build a palace and hope to fill it with hopes,dreams and
|memories with a partner that doesn't fit your intention and future. No
|matter how much love you shower and pour into them. It's like pouring
|warm and soulful soup into a flimsy plastic cup, it doesn't matter how
|great it is but it will melt the cup and fall through.
|u/gustingman - 3 hours
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|Advice from my father. Don't fuck with married women and full houses.
|u/Ambitious_Shine_1555 - 3 hours
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|That no one really knows what they’re doing so stop stressing and wing
|it like the rest of us
|u/CandyFairyy - 2 hours
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|Keep your circle small or don't even have a circle. Avoid oversharing
|u/laurasoup52 - 25 minutes
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|This sounds like a recipe for absolutely loneliness.
|u/Aggrava825 - 3 hours
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|Love yourself
|u/unused_ovaries - 3 hours
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|1/30 people waffle stomp.
|u/confidentchic02 - 3 hours
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|For me, it’s all about embracing failure. Like, every time I mess up, I
|learn something new!
|u/hayleyjayme - 3 hours
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|Time is the one thing you can never get back—use it wisely.
|u/Any_Chipmunk_6268 - 3 hours
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|I stopped wasting my energy on trying to make others happy. Now, I’ve
|started to focus only on myself. That’s what I’ve learned: don’t lose
|yourself for others. Sometimes, you need to be a little selfish to
|take care of yourself.
|u/olvodan - 3 hours
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|if someone is talking to you, they probably want something from you
|u/Patralgan - 3 hours
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|English
|u/sticky_applesauce07 - 3 hours
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|So many to choose from. It's a toss up between brushing my teeth and
|washing my hands.
|u/Coolbeans_97 - 3 hours
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|Don’t be so harsh on yourself and realize that the best is right there
|in front of you, be it a family member, gf/bf, friend, colleague or a
|random person.
|u/djuls - 3 hours
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|Introspection As a teenager, i was in really bad period and nobody to
|support me. Everyday, i was writing on my diary about all my pain, and
|doing this mental exercice to analyse it and make it rational. This
|litterally saved my mental heath and, as an adulte, I keep doing it, I
|didn't found any better way to deal with my personal struggles. And it
|also helped a lot to develop my empathy for people being weird or
|problematic
|u/sultrybadger9 - 2 hours
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|humility &/or emotional intelligence
|u/TheMightyTorg - 3 hours
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|No. It's so easy, yet people seem to have a hard time saying it.
|u/anprme - 2 hours
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|how to learn
|u/Iamalreadypeeled - 2 hours
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|How embroidery it was my pass in art
|u/xoxocami1 - 2 hours
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|life’s too short to sweat the small stuff, focus on what really matters
|u/tattedandhotx - 2 hours
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|I’ve learned how to cut toxic people out of my life for my own peace
|and growth.
|u/INTJ_12 - 1 hour
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|Don’t expect anything from people and be self-aware. Knowing what you
|deserve doesn’t mean that you can be mean to those people around you.
|u/Samisoy001 - 1 hour
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|When I was in school I thought the kids that got straight A's would
|automatically be the most successful in life. By the time I reached 25
|most of the straight A kids had dropped out of college and were just
|working warehouse jobs. Some of them became a drug addicts and one of
|them actually did really well for themselves. The thing is it was the
|same for the kids like me who go B's and C's. Some of us just got
|warehouse jobs, while others ruined their lives with drugs and only and
|only one of us has a very successful plumbing business. Straight A's
|don't mean much once you graduate. It's what you do after you are out
|of high school that matters.
|u/SirBeardsAlot91 - 1 hour
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|Never take your health for granted. Just because an illness is uncommon
|or even rare, it doesn't mean it can't change your life. In December of
|2023, I went in for a routine appointment that would save my life. My
|primary care physician discovered a lump on my body that hadn't been
|causing me any symptoms up until that point. I was baffled I hadn't
|even noticed it. Following an ultrasound and CT scan, I was diagnosed
|with cancer. I had surgery to remove the mass in January of this year,
|though several lymph nodes in my body were still enlarged. I spent the
|next 5-6 months enduring several rounds of chemotherapy. At this
|point, I believed I was in the clear and a follow up CT scan revealed
|only a single enlarged lymph node, which turned out to be scar tissue
|from the chemotherapy (had to have a surgery to remove several lymph
|nodes recently). Nothing could have prepared me for what happened next
|though.... my mother, my best friend and ally, was diagnosed with a
|terminal illness. I would rather not disclose the illness here. Though
|she suffered from mental illness most of her life, I thought she would
|make the rational treatment to seek treatment though her religious
|beliefs clouded her judgment. She is currently in the midst of
|psychosis and continues to deteriorate. I worry now I won't even get a
|chance to say goodbye to my own mother. Within the past 2-3 months, I
|also learned that her cat (whom I loved and adored when I was much
|younger) succumbed to neglect, as she wasn't able to take care of it. I
|ended up calling animal control on her after witnessing the state she
|was in and they were forced to put her down. A trip to check in with my
|mother, who I hadn't seen in a while, turned into a tragedy. I spent
|the next half hour crying while hanging my head upon the steering wheel
|in my car. After returning to my apartment, I began throwing up from
|sheer anxiety, stress and fear. I contemplated suicide several times
|since this day and still grapple with these thoughts now. I keep asking
|"why me?" but no ever answers. As a 33 year old man, I thought I'd have
|the willpower by now to keep my composure in this situation, but this
|is all so much. Again, never take what you have now for granted. You
|don't truly know the value of something until it is at stake.
|u/CatostrophicFailure - 47 minutes
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|If you try long enough and skip eating your chances of self-fellating
|are much better. Just be careful of your back, no one needs to find
|your back broken with your dick in your own mouth. Stretches are
|important.
|u/xIcy- - 32 minutes
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|Not to associate myself with people in power when I myself do not
|possess said degree of power. These people treat people they see
|inferior like animals... Biggest regret.
|u/laurasoup52 - 25 minutes
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|I'm just like everybody else, and that's a good thing.
|u/Smiley_Dub - 21 minutes
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|To have compassion both for yourself and others
|u/Nussidrewl - 6 minutes
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|Don't shit where you eat.
|u/Mayonaiseiskinky - 2 minutes
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|Don’t fear failure, learn from them
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