Originally posted by the Voice of America. Voice of America content is produced by the Voice of America, a United States federal government-sponsored entity, and is in the public domain. Remembering Fallen Warriors on Memorial Day America's veterans reflect on lost comrades, time on the front lines Adam Phillips | New York 28 May 2010 Monday, May 31 is Memorial Day in the United States, a time when Americans traditionally take time to honor those who have died in the nation's wars. While Memorial Day is often celebrated with flag-waving and patriotic ceremonies and parades, it can also be a highly personal observance: a time to grieve for comrades-in-arms and others who have lost their lives in military service. Sgt. Carde, who was wounded in Iraq, keeps a picture of his fallen comrade in his living room. Courtesy: Sgt. Carde Sgt. Carde, who was wounded in Iraq, keeps a picture of his fallen comrade in his living room. Remembering the fallen It is noon outside the Veteran's Administration hospital in Midtown Manhattan, and the usual lunchtime crowd is here: health care workers in loose green scrubs, family members with bouquets and Mylar balloons on the way to visit patients, and veterans, like Bill Joseph. He takes a bite of a hot dog, adjusts his Veteran of Foreign Wars cap, and recalls his experience in the U.S. Navy during the Vietnam War more than three decades ago. "The person I most fondly remember is Cmdr. Bill Searfus, who became like a close friend," says Joseph. "Although he was a commander, everybody wanted to be there for him. He was compassionate. He gave a damn about his men." Cmdr. Searfus' plane was shot down over Hanoi, North Vietnam's capital. "They blew his canopy off and he almost made it back to the ship and he went under," recalls Joseph. "It was very, very traumatic for me - more than if he got killed - because he almost made it back to our ship safely." Marco Torres mourns three men in his squad, who were killed in a road ambush near Kabul, Afghanistan. VOA - A. Phillips Marco Torres mourns three men in his squad, who were killed in a road ambush near Kabul, Afghanistan. Marco Torres mourns three men in his squad, who were killed in a road ambush near Kabul, Afghanistan. One of those men, Sgt. McKay, was like a big brother to him. "When I